Growing up...

"Growing up, people called me: Bossy. Conceited. Arrogant. But the truth is - boys would act the same way I did, but they'd call him: Ambitious. Visionary. A Leader.  You know what? At first it affected me, but then I decided that I wasn't going to change myself to please other people. I kept doing my thing. I surrounded myself with people who got me. Got that I wasn't trying to be "bossy" - that I was just trying to get things done." — Cassey Ho, via www.instagram.com

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Women

"Women, in whom life abides and dwells more immediately, more fruitfully and more trustingly, are bound to have ripened more thoroughly, become more human human beings, than a man, who is all too light and has not been pulled down beneath the surface of life by the weight of a bodily fruit and who, in his arrogance and impatience, undervalues what he things he loves. This humanity which inhabits woman, brought to term in pain and humiliation, will, once she has shrugged off the conventions of mere femininity through the transformations of her outward status, come clearly to light, and m

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Rocky Quote!

Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done! Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers

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Thinking about other ...

Stop thinking that other people are going to come and save you. You gotta save yourself. — Rae Earl, My Mad Fat Diary: A Memoir

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Be Sad !

It’s okay to be sad. You don’t owe anyone a performance of being okay when you feel like you’re falling apart. -Daniell Koepke, Self Care: It's Okay To Not Be Okay

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You Fail !

Most people never pick up the phone, most people never ask. And that’s what separates the people that do things from the people that just dream about them. You gotta act. And you gotta be willing to fail. Steve Jobs, Steve Jobs on Failure

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Remember

...remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I’ve taken for granted.

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Speak your mind

Speak your mind. Put your desires forward, as if you had a right to them— at least the same right as others. Walk tall and gaze forthrightly ahead. Dare to be dangerous.

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Cry, if it makes you feel better

Have you ever heard the advice that having a "good cry" will make you feel better? Well, while waterworks may be good for some, according to a new study, most people actually do not feel better after crying.The study, published in the Journal of Research in Personality, found that only about one third of cryers experienced elevated moods after shedding tears.61% experienced no change in mood and 9% actually felt worse.The researchers followed 97 women, ages 18 to 48, in the Netherlands. The participants were asked to keep to daily crying and mood diary over a three month period.Each night

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Sometimes you fall before you fly

Sometimes you fall before you fly.In my case I had to stumble in the dark, Fall on the face and get up again. Only to walk into the wall.

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Be happy for no reason like a child

The joy of children comes from leaving their fears under their parents care! As adults, our Father gives us a greater reason to have joy, by commanding burdens to be placed under His perfect care!

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Shoot for the moon!

It means that Shoot for the moon and Even if you miss you will land among the stars. yeah!!! Set your goals so high that even if they by any unfortunate circumstances don’t work out you will still be flying among the stars which is not bad at all. Cut the doubting and watching mistakes of the others and concentrate on your own existence and get the best of life. Life is beautiful… this is happymelon and walk with me

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