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Cry, if it makes you feel better

Have you ever heard the advice that having a "good cry" will make you feel better? Well, while waterworks may be good for some, according to a new study, most people actually do not feel better after crying.

The study, published in the Journal of Research in Personality, found that only about one third of cryers experienced elevated moods after shedding tears.
61% experienced no change in mood and 9% actually felt worse.
The researchers followed 97 women, ages 18 to 48, in the Netherlands. The participants were asked to keep to daily crying and mood diary over a three month period.

Each night the participants recorded their daily mood, urge to cry, and whether or not they shed any tears.

For each crying session, the women were asked to write about the reason it occurred, how long it lasted, how intensely they cried, where it occurred, and whether or not other people were present.

After examining 1,004 crying episodes, the scientists found that those who cried the hardest, not the longest, experienced the most mood elevation.

According to Jonathan Rottenberg, an associate professor of Psychology at the University of South Florida, the greatest benefit of crying may actually be its ability to connect you to other people.

"When crying helps it's likely not because of the tears but because it recruits social support and draws attention to important problems," explains Rottenberg.

Regardless of what the science says, what does your personal experience tell you?
Do you feel better after a "good cry"?

Sometimes you fall before you fly






Sometimes you fall before you fly.
In my case I had to stumble in the dark, Fall on the face and get up again. Only to walk into the wall.

Be happy for no reason like a child



The joy of children comes from leaving their fears under their parents care! As adults, our Father gives us a greater reason to have joy, by commanding burdens to be placed under His perfect care!

Shoot for the moon!



It means that Shoot for the moon and Even if you miss you will land among the stars. yeah!!!

Set your goals so high that even if they by any unfortunate circumstances don’t work out you will still be flying among the stars which is not bad at all. Cut the doubting and watching mistakes of the others and concentrate on your own existence and get the best of life.

Life is beautiful… this is happymelon and walk with me

Every End Is A New Beginning



Every morning has a new beginning, a new blessing, a new hope. It's a perfect day because it's God's gift. Have a blessed, hopeful, perfect day to begin with.

If your dreams don't scare you, they are not big enough



Who would want to have scary dreams?

Probably not very many people. When we say, if your dreams don’t scare you, they’re not big enough…

we’re not talking about the kind of fear you see in zombie movies. We’re talking about the fear that exists outside of your comfort zone.
Sure anyone can have attainable dreams.

My dream was to have a dishwasher… in my apartment… and just today I achieved that dream. But in all reality, that’s not really a big dream.


Dreams that require stepping into the unknown and overcoming fears are the ones that really make us grow.
It’s amazing how much a person can achieve once they step out of their comfort zone and go for it.


Stepping out of your comfort zone starts with an idea, a dream…
So don’t let your fears stop you from thinking big because you’d be surprised by what you can accomplish.

If you aren't happy being single, you will never be happy in a relationship



Knowing who you are deep down, the things in life that you are passionate about, and the dreams that you want to see realized, is huge in ever being in and maintaining a happy relationship. Sometimes we become single so that we can be able to get our own lives first. Some have found some happiness before they have found someone else, so this isn't always entirely true. But if you are single right now, be sure to examine yourself first, and to get your own life.

Dont base your life and your own happiness upon finding someone else. It is good to be a little selfish sometimes so that you can see the direction in life that you really want to go, and to be able to go towards it. After you do this, you may very well find the most compatible person to share it with.

Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated



I believe simplicity is important in our lives. Whether it’s a camping trip with no phones, computers or microwaves or if it’s just a relaxing evening with a book and a fireplace, going simple can be a great way to reduce your stress and relax.

Simplification is a useful tool to help you unwind. Reduction of extraneous input (phone, kids, parents, loud sounds, bright lights, phones, computers or whatever) and focusing on the one simple thing (which could be kids, loud music or computers) really helps me.

You must not abandon ship in a storm



If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm.
--Mahatma Gandhi 

Never give up



It seems to me we can never give up longing and wishing while we are thoroughly alive. There are certain things we feel to be beautiful and good, and we must hunger after them.

George Eliot

When I started counting my blessing my whole word turned around



Willie Nelson has changed the lives of thousands of people, including my own. More important, Willie Nelson also changed his life  and I do mean for the better
. After beating his hard head against the music business in Nashville during the fifties and sixties, Willie was on hard times. He’d long ago sold some of his best songs   like “Night Life” and “Family Bible”  for a few tens in folding money.
His house in Nashiville had burned down, and he was sick and tired of trying to be something that he was not.

Making the wisest decision of his life, Willie decided that he cared more about his family, friends, and simply making music than he did about trying to be a star. Moving home to Texas he wrapped himself in a concern of indifference to other people’s opinions  and eventually unfolded his new wings and soared.

It might be stormy now but it can't rain forever



Just because it’s stormy right now , doesn’t mean it’s gonna rain forever!
In other words just because you feel like your life can’t get any worse doesn’t mean its gonna be like that forever!

Be kind whenever possible




“I believe that the very purpose of life is to be happy. From the very core of our being, we desire contentment. In my own limited experience I have found that the more we care for the happiness of others, the greater is our own sense of well-being. Cultivating a close, warmhearted feeling for others automatically puts the mind at ease. It helps remove whatever fears or insecurities we may have and gives us the strength to cope with any obstacles we encounter. It is the principal source of success in life.

Since we are not solely material creatures, it is a mistake to place all our hopes for happiness on external development alone. The key is to develop inner peace.”

Sometimes silence is a really good answer



There are times when one can say more by being silent. Too many times we may be guilty of saying too much. The multiplicity of words is much in evidence today.\n One who restrains his words has knowledge...\neven a fool,\n when he keeps silent,
is considered wise;
when he closes his lips, he is prudent.

I don't regret my past,I just regret the time



I don’t regret my past because it made me stronger but, I regret the time that I wasted on the WRONG PEOPLE.

Small opportunities are often the beginning of great achievements



If you spend five minutes complaining, you have just wasted five minutes. If you continue complaining, it won't be long before they haul you out to a financial desert and there let you choke on the dust of your own regret. -- Jim Rohn

Mother's Love



A little boy came up to his mother in the kitchen one evening while she was fixing supper, and handed her a piece of paper that he had been writing on. After his Mom dried her hands on an apron, she read it, and this is what it said:

For cutting the grass: $5.00
For cleaning up my room this week: $1.00
For going to the store for you: $.50
Baby-sitting my kid brother while you went shopping: $.25
Taking out the garbage: $1.00
For getting a good report card: $5.00
For cleaning up and raking the yard: $2.00
Total owed: $14.75

Well, his mother looked at him standing there, and the boy could see the memories flashing through her mind. She picked up the pen, turned over the paper he’d written on, and this is what she wrote:


For the nine months I carried you while you were growing inside me:
No Charge
For all the nights that I’ve sat up with you, doctored and prayed for you:
No Charge
For all the trying times, and all the tears that you’ve caused through the years:
No Charge
For all the nights that were filled with dread, and for the worries I knew were ahead:
No Charge
For the toys, food, clothes, and even wiping your nose:
No Charge
Son, when you add it up, the cost of my love is:
No Charge.

When the boy finished reading what his mother had written, there were big tears in his eyes, and he looked straight at his mother and said, “Mom, I sure do love you.” And then he took the pen and in great big letters he wrote: “PAID IN FULL”.

Lessons:

You will never know your parents worth till you become a parent

Be a giver not an acquirer, especially with your parents. there is a lot to give, besides money.

BECAUSE MONEY IS THE WORST WAYOF MEASURING HAPPINESS ♥

If you can't be a pencil be an eraser





If you can't be a PENCIL to wrote someone's happiness then try to be a nice ERASER to remove their sadness.

Never change your originality for the sake of others



"Don't Change Yourself for Anybody. Ever." 

I think in terms of "changing for people" its more of a point to compromise for others in order to gain there perspective, I believe that the "change" that all people are talking about are involuntary change/demands to make the other parties happy, not to make themselves happy.

Never change your originality

I have no time to "Hate People"



“Honestly, I don’t have time to hate people who hate me, cause I’m too busy loving people who love me.”

Do Not Waste Your Time Thinking Just Do IT



I think there's just an inherent burden of being alive and being a woman. No man would ever admit that, but I think women know it, which is: You know more than men, you know more than most people you're dealing with every day, and you know that's it up to you to make things move forward, and you get paid half as much, but you just do it.

--Rashida Jones 

I am what I am



I am who I am, I am what I am, I do what I do and I ain't never gonna do it any different. I don't care who likes it and who don't.
--Buck Owens 

Don't Expect every one to understand you journey



Nobody is ever going to really fully understand every dynamic of a person's experiences to ever understand why they act the way they do. We all have different memories, and from these memories and experiences, we choose to act presently accordingly. If someone is behaving in a manner that you dont understand or agree with, it isn't your duty to tell them that they are wrong on a consistent basis, because people are going to do what they really want to whether you agree with it or not.

You can stop a man from actually doing, but getting a person to stop thinking the way that they think, isn't up to you, and isn't something that you can change on your own. So don't expect people to understand you, and don't expect to understand everyone else. Just be sure to do what is right in your own heart.

Don't confuse your path with your destination



Just because you are in a period with a lot of storms, or a lot of trials, doesn't mean that a sunny time isn't ahead. It just means that you are going through some things, and that changing your outlook may help you a lot in overcoming a destructive mindset.

A destructive mindset is a mindset that doesn't allow you to see the light ahead, and fools you into thinking that you are worse off than you really are in most cases.
Never confuse where you are now, with where it is you want to be. This is a new day, and only you can live the way you need to achieve and soar to new heights. Be that unrelenting spirit that you know you can really be as each day passes. Work hard daily, and continue to stay focused on obtaining the life that you want for you and the people who matter most to you.

Family



I'll never stop dreaming that one day we can be a real family, together, all of us laughing and talking, loving and understanding, not looking at the past but only to the future.

--LaToya Jackson

Rule #53



The life I live today is the one I thought off years ago, I make sure to think only good things every day. Good thing about me and good things about every one around me. The power to create is with-in all of us, we create that which we thing off the most.

I Don't need a perfect one



I don’t need a perfect one… I just need someone
who can make me feel that i’m the only one.

Help everyone



A man was driving his car, when he saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road. He saw that she needed help. So he stopped his Pontiac near her Mercedes and got out.

He smiled, while he was approaching her, still she was worried, as nobody had stopped for hours. Moreover, he did not look safe, as his appearance was so poor and shabby. He could see, how frightened she was, so he tried to calm her: „ I‘m here to help you, don‘t worry. My name is Bryan Anderson“.

The tire was flat, so he had to crawl under the car. While changing the tire, he got dirty and his hands were hurt.

When the job was done, she asked how much she owed him for his help. Bryan smiled. He said: „If you really want to pay me back, the next time you see someone, who needs help, give that person the needed assistance. And think of me“.

A the same evening, the lady stopped by a small cafe. That place looked dingy. Then she saw a waitress, nearly eight months pregnant, wiping her wet hear with a towel. The waitress had a sweet friendly smile, although she had spent on her feet the whole day.

The lady wondered, how someone, who has so little, can be so kind and giving to a strange. Then she remembered Bryan.

The lady had finished her meal and paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress went to get change and when she came back, the lady was gone. She left a note on the napkin: „You don‘t own me anything. Somebody once helped me, just like now I‘m helping you. If you really want to pay me back, do not let this chain of love end with you“. The waitress found four more one hundred bills under the napkin.

That night the waitress came home earlier. She was thinking about the lady and the money she left. She was wondering, how the lady could know, how much she and her husband needed it? Especially now, when the baby will soon arrive. She knew, that her husband worried about that, so she was glad to tell him good news. Then she kissed him and whispered „Now everything will be all right. I love you, Bryan Anderson“.

The Less You Care The Happier You will Be



We become happier by caring less to the extent that we loss the universal sense of reality. Shouting out loud that to the girl you love "I love you" inside a mall, sleeping inside a classroom, dancing in public, planking everywhere.
You know you can only do this on a limited basis. You are not granted with freedom everywhere around the globe. You can't always shout or sing out loud in public places,
You can't always color your hair, or plank anywhere. My point is, by caring less for our own purpose of happiness we are sometimes costing the happiness of others. In other words, "The Less You Care, The Happier you will be" is a limited happiness - an "ethereal happiness".

Never,Never,Never give up...



It is almost Groundhog day as I write this. That is the day when all of America watches as two men in top hats and suits from Victorian England reach into the ground and pull out a giant rodent to find out if it will see its shadow. If Mr. Groundhog does see it then we are supposed to have six more weeks of Winter, but if he doesn’t we are supposed to have an early Spring. Of course, everyone knows that we will have six more weeks of Winter either way. We all know that a cubby groundhog has no power to bring about an early Spring. Still, every year we watch to see what the furry weather forecaster will do.

Why do we do this? I think that the main reason is that at heart we human beings are creatures of hope. We hope for an early Spring. We hope for a better life. We hope for a better future for our children. We hope for a better world. We even hope that we can grow into better people ourselves. And it is this hope that makes all the others possible.

You see, we can grow into better people. We can do so with each choice we make. We can do so with each act of kindness we do and each gesture of goodness we give. All our other hopes rest on it too. Only by being better people can we create a better future for our children. Only by being better people can we make a better life for ourselves. Only by being better people can we build a better world. Only by being better people and sharing our love and light with everyone can me make it feel like Spring even in the middle of Winter.

Yes, we human beings are creatures of hope, but we are also creatures of action. Let us all keep our hopes high then and our spirits strong. Let us all keep our hearts loving and our actions kind. Let us all build a better world, a better future, a better life, and a better soul within us. God is smiling down on us and ready to help us every step of the way. All we need do is begin.

Before you complain about taste of your food, Think...


One day, a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”

“It was great, Dad.”

“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.

“Oh yeah,” said the son.

“So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.

The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden, and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden, and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard, and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on, and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us; they have friends to protect them.”

The boy’s father was speechless.

Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are.”

Be yourself



Be yourself. Being yourself around someone is part of what makes you guys best friends. You are who you are, and your best friend will accept that. Being "fake" could lead you to losing your best friend. Be best friends with someone who you know you can be yourself around, because it isn't worth it trying to be someone you're not so you can be closer to someone.
Don't hold things in. If you feel uncomfortable or have hard feelings toward your best friend, talk about it with them. Make things comfortable, and you'll both go through thick and thin together.

 
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